You’ve probably heard it before “Just enjoy the planning!” But what if it doesn’t feel enjoyable? In Chapter 2, we’re getting real about wedding stress and why so many brides feel overwhelmed (even with a Pinterest-perfect mood board). From information overload to unrealistic expectations, I’ll walk you through the hidden pressure points and how to manage them with grace, clarity, and calm. Because your engagement season deserves peace, not panic.
INTRODUCTION TO THE SERIES: Stuff Every Bride Should Know


Hey beautiful bride-to-be,
First off, congratulations! Whether you’re newly engaged, knee-deep in Pinterest boards, or just starting to dip your toes into wedding planning, you’re in the right place. I’m Nicole, wedding planner, logistics queen, and your new behind-the-scenes BFF for this exciting (and sometimes overwhelming) season of life.
Over the years, I’ve helped hundreds of couples plan their dream day. I’ve seen the happy tears, the late-night panics, the venue mishaps, and the magical recoveries. And somewhere along the way, I realized something:
There’s so much stuff every bride should know. But no one really tells her.
That’s why I’m launching this blog series: Stuff Every Bride Should Know.
It’s a collection of bite sized, no fluff, real talk chapters that break down everything I’ve learned from planning weddings, minus the Pinterest pressure and with a whole lot of love.
Each post will feel like we’re having a coffee (or wine!) chat, where I’ll share the things I wish every bride knew before walking down the aisle. From budgeting secrets and stress saving hacks to picking your dream team and navigating awkward guest list drama. it’s all here.
Think of it as your bridal cheat sheet. One blog post at a time, released every week or two, and later turned into a little book you can carry with you throughout your planning journey.
So if you’re ready to plan smarter, feel calmer, and actually enjoy the journey to your “I do,” then stick around. You’ll want to read every single chapter.
Let’s make this the most beautiful ride of your life.
With love,
Nicole
Ready for Chapter 1? It’s live now! Read it here ➝
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